Most regard high school as either the most glorious or treacherous time of a person’s life. However, as I begin my final year of this four-part journey, I have come to realize that it is in fact neither. High School is an educational experience encapsulated by teenage hormones, strenuous work, hopes for the future, and of course, instructional time. So for all those still figuring out how to navigate this peculiar period, here is my best advice.
You do not need to do everything.
By far, the most common recommendation upperclassmen bestow upon rising students is to participate in an abundance of extracurriculars. Do not do this. You have plenty of time to discover which activities pique your interest, and which you feel passionate about leading. The time you spend will be entirely useless if you’re solely working to fill an application––prioritize meaningful experience in areas you intend on pursuing.
Take advantage of IB
The coursework at Meridian is objectively difficult. Nearly every student will participate in at least one IB class, and the rest of their schedule loaded with APs, honors, and electives. Even some of the standard level classes are dual taught with HL students. So take advantage of this. Get credit where credit is due. As an IB diploma candidate, I strongly encourage at least attempting the diploma program. It will be difficult, exhausting, and strenuous, but the satisfaction far outweighs the struggle. However, even if that path isn’t right for you––challenge yourself. Don’t take the opportunities our school offers for granted, and don’t undersell your hard work.
Teenage years are dramatic
Find value in pursuits outside of other people. Join a gym. Play a sport. Find a hobby. You cannot rely on that validation of others to bring you joy, whether social or academic. Develop interests and explore activities that stretch your brain, and relish in your personal achievements––even, and especially, if they don’t contribute to an application or profile.
Sometimes you just have to do it for the aesthetic
I am a firm believer in the “look good, feel good” mentality. Stock up on pretty stationary and your cutest comfy clothes. You’ll have trouble focusing if you don’t feel your best.
It’s all going to be ok
I did not hear this enough throughout my high school journey, but it’s true. Everything works out how it is meant to. You will get into university, find a fulfilling job, or accomplish whatever goals you have set for yourself. Focus on the aspects you can control.
