All of your love queries, answered exclusively on The Lasso.
What does it mean when a guy says he loves you but flirts with the girl he sits next to in TOK?? pls help, I’m lost.
TOK is all about exploring multiple perspectives, so he’s probably doing just that! Or, exploring multiple girls… It might be best to confront him directly because someone who truly loves you wouldn’t be flirting with other girls. Unless love has a different meaning to him, maybe it’s a metaphor? Everything gets complicated in the world of TOK.
I care a lot about someone very close to me. Sometimes I think my feelings are more than normal affection, but I’m afraid to mess up the relationship we’ve built over the years. Got any advice I should invest in?
Making a move on a loyal friend can be a tricky situation. It’s important you start by evaluating how significant these “more than friends” feelings are, and if you’ll be okay if they don’t feel the same way. If you do decide to go for it, make sure to test the waters first. A full-on love confession to a long-term friend can be overwhelming, but you could always ask to hang out in a more romantic setting or make some flirty comments. If they don’t pick up what you’re putting down, nobody has to know you ever felt those feelings.
I feel like whenever I like a guy and they like me back and we actually start talking I don’t like them anymore and I feel bad leading them on
This is a classic emotional paradox. You’re falling for the thrill of the chase. It doesn’t make you a bad person to like the adrenaline rush of the game. It might be that the reality of commitment in a relationship seems overwhelming. When it’s just a crush in your head it’s safe, but when he likes you back then it all becomes real. It’s important to be honest with the guy, though. You don’t have to lead him on; you can always make it clear that you’re not ready for something serious.
How do I talk to 3 girls at the same time and make sure each girl doesn’t know I am talking to someone else at the same time?
Managing this situation seems like a high-risk, high-reward logistical nightmare. The best advice would be to choose the one you like the most and be loyal. However, if you’re serious about this you need to make sure you don’t mix them up. Keep notes on stories you tell and the facts they share. Also, turn off notifications–imagine you’re with one girl and a text pops up from the other. That’s a rookie move. Lastly, watch out for social media…
Is it considered wrong to break into another man’s house? For love of course.
Legally wrong? Kind of… but grand gestures can be effective. What we really have to think about here is: Do they want to see you? What is your motivation? Do you think they would file a police report? As long as they don’t have cameras, right?
